Gender & Identity in New Media: Open Forum


Some Open Forum threads:


  • Dorothea Jones
    "....Many more men than women have personal Web pages
    - is that just down to access to the technology and interest in
    developing the skills, or do other factors come into play?...."

  • Helen Thorington
    "For me the question of gender has been fading...perhaps
    it's a function of age, perhaps of an environment in which women
    function far more comfortably and with far more opportunities than
    they did when I was younger... Anybody agree?"

  • Nell Tenhaaf
    "....Catherine and I provoked discussion of gender issues
    in the statement we sent out
    : we went back to basics,
    framing our ideas with the comment that the current state of
    the apparatus still generates subjectivity within a philosophical
    history of dualism between body/mind, nature/culture,
    female/male....."

  • Anna Couey
    "....Sexism hasn't been overt. But I keep finding myself circling
    back -- suddenly realizing that I'm doing the leg work at the
    organizational homefront, while a man is out generating new projects
    in the field on the basis of my labor...and other types of power
    plays.
    Aviva Rahmani writes, "I also see the discrimination as more subtle
    and sophisticated and therefore harder to fight," and I think that's
    very true. We become much more complacent when we think we're free, but
    allowing us into the workplace is different than sharing power.
    "

  • Sheila Pinkel
    I believe that part of the liberating process is to get away
    from these gender oriented terms to describe the parts of
    the persona and to work on generating whole fully manifested
    people and an appreciation for the spectrum of qualities
    in each person.
    I personally have found that
    this way of thinking is very liberating for me.

  • Jacalyn Lopez Garcia
    "When I think in terms of my own
    art making as a web-based artist (who explores the
    complexities of cultural identity from a Mexican-American
    perspective) I feel determined to address issues related
    to gender as well as other contemporary issues that focus on
    race, sexuality and feminist concerns
    ......."

  • Moderator
    This section would also be a good place to post information about current projects which would be of interest to this discussion.
    What are folks working on?

  • From: Dorothea Jones
    Date: August 9, 1999

    I'm a mature Fine Art degree student researching for a dissertation on aspects of identity on the Internet. I'm interested to have any views on gender bias in the construction of 'family-type' Home pages/Web sites, and I'm looking for examples of these on the Web.

    Many more men than women have personal Web pages - is that just down to access to the technology and interest in developing the skills, or do other factors come into play?

    Are there differences in the information given and how family members are identified in pages designed by men and by women?

    What are the significant differences and similarities between personal web pages and family photograph albums?

    As an Internet newbie, I hope that these questions are not inappropriate for this forum - my apologies if they are.

    From:Judy Malloy
    Date: August 9, 1999

    Dorothea, your questions are not at all inappropriate. Thanks for joining us!

    I wasn't aware that many more men than women have personal home pages and would be interested in knowing what the statistics are.

    From: Dorothea Jones
    Date: August 10, 1999

    Judy - I'm trying to get more up-to-date statistics on women's authorship of personal web pages. In "The first World Wide Web Personal Home Page Survey" in 1996, John Buten says that 34% of US Web users in April 1996 were women, but only 14% of personal web page authors were female. If anyone has more recent figures, I'd be glad to have them.

    From: Aviva Rahmani
    Date: August 10, 1999

    I was pleased to see Dorothea Jones address the question of differences between web sites by & women. I have noticed the web sites by men are definitely larger. There was a web site mounted by the husband and sons of a friend who died of cancer this past spring that ultimately drew 150 000 hits. I found it fascinating that it was mouinted by "her" men, as was often referred to in the postings, and yet it was a profoundly moving site (I believe it is still up). Altho not technologically particularly sophisticated, the process of dialog on the site was quite complex and seemed to equally engage men and women. I drew no conclusions from this but I suspect Dorothea might. What interested me more than anything was the queston of whom participated, for what reasons and on what basis.

    From: Helen Thorington
    Date: August 10, 1999

    For me the question of gender has been fading...perhaps it's a function of age, perhaos of an environment in which women function far more comfortably and with far more opportunities than they did when I was younger... Anybody agree?

    From: Dawn Stoppiello
    Date: August 10, 1999

    I found Dorothea's correlation between web pages and family photo albums interesting. I would say tradionally that it has been the women in families who organize and cherish the family photo albums. Perhaps men are not so much interested in the content of the Web page but more in the creation of it. There seems to be a kind of machismo associated with being able to program html or java or whatever and have that world wide presence. "Look what my web page can do" is heard more often then "look at this beautiful picture of my family". This is a generalization of course, but I guess we're looking at generalizations.

    I also wanted to respond to Helen's thoughts on the fading of gender concerns. I was recently (two weeks ago) diagnosed with Type 1 diabetes. I instantly thought - oh, now I belong to a distinct group. It seems so important in current times (maybe it always has been) to associate oneself with a group. But I never felt that being a woman was being part of a distinct group (even though it of course does mean that) because of the enviornment that Helen describes. I have not experienced blatant predjudice for being a woman. I have had many opportunites and so have most of the women around me. I have a deep respect for all the women who came before me to insure that I would have those opportunities but I don't use woman as a signifier before my art making. I am a choreographer not a hetrosexual, married woman choreographer. Of course that makes me different than a man choreographer or a gay choreographer or a catholic choreographer or a diabetic choreographer - which is what I am now too. I guess gender issues for me aren't fading away, they were never really there. But maybe they should be?

    I do however make it a personal goal to encourage women to get there hands into technology whenever I can to keep the balance right. Anyway...

    From: Karen O'Rourke
    Date: August 11, 1999

    Six years after the publication of Frank Popper's book, "Art in the Electronic Age" is now part of the arts curriculum of the CAPES exam for future high school teachers in France. Looking at the names of invited speakers at the Universite de Paris I, which include media artist Katerina Thomadaki, writer and curator Anne-Marie Duguet and critic Annick Bureaud, one is struck by the fact that not only do women appear to have a prominent place among specialists in the field but that the list contains only one man!

    From: Annick Bureaud
    Date: August 11, 1999

    I would like to add another story . Some months ago I was asked to be part of a panel about digital images in Paris. It turned out that we were 4 people : 2 men and 2 women. And I thought to myself : oh, wonderful, there are as many women as men on this panel. The fact that I noticed it just means that it is unusual (at least in this country). The *moderator* surely thought the same as he mentionned it in his introductory presentation ! The question of gender is diminishing but not totally fading away.

    One remark for Karen : you know that the French system of education encounters much more women than men. It is just NOT the site of power (socially, economically, etc.). How many women do we have in the business ? (I mean high-tech business).

    But, Karen, I agree, it's good that so many women are involved in this teaching programme...

    From: Dorothea Jones
    Date: August 11, 1999

    There are many interesting strands to this debate! I would like to access the Web site mentioned by Aviva Rahmani [do you recall the name or URL please], also any other Home Pages that any of you think worth looking at for my research.

    Dawn Stoppiello's thoughts about women vis-a-vis family photo albums contrasted with men's attitudes re Web pages seem to ring true - a woman suggested to me that men's making of Web pages can sometimes ring of a marking out of territory!

    It was notable that a UK man's family page I recently found had one page with a photo, cartoons and lists of hobbies, favourite bands etc for each of each two young daughters, and about 5 pages showing him racing cars at UK race circuits, with links to Porsche pages plus 1 photo of himself. His wife appeared on one page with simply a photograph and her name. I wondered whether this was her choice, and how the Web pages for that family might have been different if she had authored them - assuming of course that she wanted Web pages at all.

    An American woman directed me to her Web Page - no photo, very orientated to spirituality and feminist support groups - and contrasted it with her husband's which told where they lived, that they had 2 daughters, and detailed his Church and computer interests.

    I definitely need more examples of men's and women's home pages to pursue these lines of enquiry.

    From: Karen O'Rourke
    Date: August 11, 1999

    Annick mentioned earlier that tech-art wasnt taken seriously. Perhaps this made it easier for women to gain entry and to achieve recognition.

    There are still many deep-rooted predjudices against women. The French university is notoriously male-oriented (white upper middle-class) as Pierre Bourdieu showed in Homo Academicus. However many women have made names for themselves in spite of this. Its true that the art school is not the seat of power at the university nor is the university the center of power in France. But we shouldnt undermine its influence. There are many women teachers at the university but I wouldnt be surprised if statistically they didnt tend to cluster in the lower ranks with more men at the top; it would seem that more men occupy key power positions than women. However we did have a woman president for a while, the rector of Paris is a woman... (It is also those same developing countries where girls work to put their brothers through college which have been known to elect women prime ministers...)

    From: Aviva Rahmani
    Date: August 12, 1999

    The web site is . In fact I sent Jamie's husband, Philip Conkling, the copy of Judy's announcement of the open panel just last night. When I transferred the files to my word processor, there were about 400 pages of entries from all over the world and many who never knew her. The idea of dealing with profound human issues, as death, loss, spiritual questions, family, etc. etc to touch everyone. Until days before she died, postings were still being read to her. The initial inspiration for the site seemed to have been her own moving invitation about ten years ago, asking 200 friends to have tea with her at a certain time every year, wherever they were, and discuss solutions to earth shattering questions. Now without any criticism implied to this very delicate issue the question arises for me as to whether this site was a collaborative effort and therefore implicitily, how different degrees of engagement in collaborative relationships color the outcome. For example, in my modest experience with EAT, I approached knowing little science and essentially came to the experience ith a "do me" attitude. Now, when I work with scientists or techno experts, I do my homework and in many cases, could do the work but am stimulated by a different level of exchange of ideas. This touches on some of Robert Atkins' excellent questions elsewhere for this panel: can one tease out the gender issues and is that useful? Certainly what I described about my younger collaborations was more passive, "feminine". I am reminded of a story Newton Harrison told me recently about an encounter in Europe, where he was asked why he was bringing his wife along. Newton responded that his wife was whom he had dinner with, Helen was his collaborator. So even when the team is famously egalitarian, it has to be restated for the public. I knew both of them before they began to work together and I can say unequivacably Newton's work was totally different before and their work has mutated a great deal over the years as Helen's role has grown. I believe this is all important but have no idea how to quantify or correlate it.

    From: Aviva Rahmani
    Date: August 12, 1999

    Pardon me, Dorothea Jones, apparently the URL got lost on both postings because of brackets. It is jamien.com

    From: Diane Gage
    Date: August 12, 1999

    Dorothea -- you might be interested for your research in my friend Helen Redman's website www.birthingthecrone.com, which presents a body of artwork dealing with menopause and issues of female aging.

    From: Dorothea Jones
    Date: August 15, 1999

    Many thanks for the recommendations as to Web sites, Aviva and Diane - both are most interesting to me not only for my dissertation research but also in terms of the themes of my studio practice [various aspects of being human].

    I suspect that in the UK we have fewer personal Web sites per Web user than in the US - some of the reasons may be cultural but there is also the eminently practical disincentive that we have to pay for all local telephone calls by the minute!

    Anyway, many thanks to everyone who has contributed - any further thoughts would be welcome, of course.

    From: Judy Malloy
    Date: August 15, 1999

    A few of the artist's sites listed in the Sources section of this panel might also be of interest. In particular, Shirley Sneve's A Story of Mothers and Daughters in South Dakata and Abbe Don's Bubbe's Back Porch - http://www.bubbe.com come to mind. (but the link is blown on Shirley's site and I have on my list to contact her)

    From: Nell Tenhaaf
    Date: August 17, 1999

    In 1991, I and longtime friend, colleague and fellow media artist Catherine Richards organized the bioapparatus event at the Banff Centre in Alberta, Canada. This was a ten-week residency plus seminar that brought together twenty or so artistic/theoretical minds to think through the history and current configuration of the mind-body-machine meld. We coined the term "bioapparatus" for the residency, to describe a multi-layered theme of the technological apparatus, the technologized body, and new ways of looking at biology. Plus at the time, we were looking at all of this through the scrim of public fascination with virtual reality, which was coming to a peak just about then. The method was to disseminate very widely a one page text about issues related to the bioapparatus, request short responses, have our residents address these at the two-day seminar, and compile all of that into a publication. Dense, consdensed, and really interesting.

    Our residents ended up being about one third women, a result of chance to a very great extent given the length of stay. Although this wasn't entirely to our liking, they were strong women with solid practices and ideas. Catherine and I provoked discussion of gender issues in the statement we sent out: we went back to basics, framing our ideas with the comment that the current state of the apparatus still generates subjectivity within a philosophical history of dualism between body/mind, nature/culture, female/male. We cited Rosi Braidotti's concept of "bodily materiality" in relation to virtuality and the mythologies being generated around it. The responses we got were again about one-third women -- odd, but perhaps symptomatic of the territory. We categorized the responses for discussion under headings that included Natural Artifice, Designing the Social, Re-embodiment, Perfect Bodies, Subjectivities, Cyborg Fictions.

    I think we really succeeded in integrating gender issues into what was in fact a very guy kind of affair because the real authorities there in terms of VR technology were men -- and I don't disparage them at all, they were great. In fact we were introducing the issues to some of them, as they may have been very advanced in their techno field but hadn't had to encounter the challenge of contextualizing their work culturally and socially. It was a heady moment in that way, and indicated that we needed to do more mixing of types of people working in new technologies. Well we said that then, but unfortunately haven't worked the reality of it into our lives except on a more ad hoc basis.

    From: Moderator
    Date: August 17, 1999

    Nell, I like what you and Catherine said in the introduction to BIOAPPARATUS (the book which came out of the process) -- "Rather than create a category in the discussion paper that focused on gender issues, we preferred to have these questions, like questions of race, class and cultural differences integrated as much as possible into all the discussions."

    From: Anna Couey
    Date: August 25, 1999

    A couple additions to the website list: Jacalyn Lopez Garcia's "Glass Houses" Fuses autobiography as a way of exploring issues of race, class, acculturation and nationalism.

    Also Carolyn Guyer's project, Mother Millenia, gathering stories about mothers - http://mothermillennia.org/

    To resurface a thread that Helen and Dawn raised about gender identity...I wonder (& Judy and Sonya and I have had some discussions about it) to what extent age plays a role -- at least for educated white women in the US. Many of the men my age (late 30s) know how to cook, for example; it's rare in my father's generation. That's got to play out in male/female relationships somehow. In the workplace, like Dawn, I feel that I've had a number of opportunties -- and sometimes advantages, being a woman. Sexism hasn't been overt. But I keep finding myself circling back -- suddenly realizing that I'm doing the leg work at the organizational homefront, while a man is out generating new projects in the field on the basis of my labor...and other types of power plays. Aviva Rahmani writes, "I also see the discrimination as more subtle and sophisticated and therefore harder to fight," and I think that's very true. We become much more complacent when we think we're free, but allowing us into the workplace is different than sharing power.

    From: Dorothea Jones
    Date: August 25, 1999

    Thanks, the web sites are very relevant for me.

    On gender identity, as an older woman [in my 50s] I know a number of partnerships in my age group where the men have domestic skills, especially enjoying cooking. But the majority of husbands/wives seem to have settled for the "traditional" marital roles, with the wives apparently uncomfortable if their husband tries to get involved with cooking etc when he retires.

    In my work [local government], the sexism was subtle and generally unrecognised by the "suits" who perpetrated it. When I left 5 years ago, women still had to struggle to be taken altogether seriously, and I still got "talked down" and my ideas appropriated by male managers at my own and higher levels.

    Another issue I find with age is a feeling of being less acknowledged and less valued by those who don't know me. Perhaps I'm becoming paranoid! In my College year group [UK Fine Art degree] there are 70 students mainly around 21 years old. I am in the top 2 or 3 on assessments, but I believe the College is mainly interested in promoting one or two of the young men as their artists of the future - of course, they do have more years in front of them!

    From: Christy Sheffield Sanford
    Date: August 27, 1999

    Oh, I don't think you're being paranoid, Dorothea. I just can't let myself dwell on the specific injustices for long or I'd lose my focus. When I find myself becoming angry about the male dominance/slights/unfairness, I rededicate myself to promoting women and to voicing my art/thoughts/beliefs. I have one friend, a mere child of 22, who taught me a very important thing: think more about what you want to happen than on what you don't have. This has helped enormously in my outlook and goals. As to the practical matter of looking up home pages (Are you sure you want to do this, sounds like torture.), go to individual domains, often they list home pages. For example, Zetnet has a users page index http://users.zetnet.co.uk/ as do many domains. To Helen Thorington, yes and no. I find some gender issues rather veiled. Here's a typical male ploy: talking too much. The aggression is in sheer number of words. I find this often on lists. Another WAS the emphasis on number of links, like notches in a gun belt. In fact, and I'm sure many will disagree, I find the whole overdependence on linking to a new URL (constant spurting) to be rather male. I think it has almost killed hypertext. Some of us have recognized this (even men) and are allowing the work to unfold, allowing people to play the page. All thanks to the miracle of Java Scripting. I'm not a Java Scriptor but I know how to download scripts and how to use Dreamweaver to create my own.

    From: Jennifer Ley
    Date: August 28, 1999

    This is a rather intriguing discussion, given the fact that a few weeks ago I was speaking with a man who does creative technical work on the net, and he commented that in his estimation, it was the women who were doing all the most interesting work in new media. So I would have to second Christy's thoughts and focus on what women are doing, rather than whether or not we have web page parity in numbers with men. Reading through the panelists for this conference, I am struck by just how many women I know who are doing everything from making art to editing literary websites to creating hypertext/hypermedia work to coordinating online writers workshops, etc, whose names I don't see listed. (And please don't take this statement to imply anything ... I also see many women whose work I admire ... my point being our numbers are greater than we sometimes know. Many of the people I'll list below are part of the literary world on the web.)

    Here is a partial list of women who come to mind, in no particular order, with some urls: Sue Thomas, Director: trAce online writers community http://trace.ntu.ac.uk/
    Deena Larsen, one of the coordinators for Cybermountain, a recent colloquium on hypertext work, administrator for the mailing list by the same name. Deena has published several hypertexts through Eastgate Systems: http://www.eastgate.com/
    Jackie Craven, another hypertext author, see Eastgate.
    Stephanie Strickland, another hypertext author, see Eastgate.
    M. D. Coverley, another hypertext author, see Eastgate.
    Diane Caney, another hypertext author.
    Daniela Gioseffi, author and editor of Wise Women's Web http://www.garden.net/users/wisewomensweb/
    Kay Day, women's poetry editor at Suite 101.com
    Margery Snyder, co-editor/guide for poetry for About.com http://poetry.about.com/mbody.htm?COB=home&PID=2840&PM=60_905_T
    Jordanne Holyoak-Kitchel and Elliza McGrand, co-editors of the literary website the Free Cuisenart, which is actively involved in protecting first amendment rights on the internet.
    http://www.ccofa.org/wowzine/wowzine.html
    katrina grace craig, co-editor of Agnieska's Dowry CK Tower, editor of the online literary magazine Conspire (together, CK and I produced a joint issue on women and gender issues last year on our respective literary websites) http://www.conspire.org" http://www.heelstone.com/wherewewere/index.html
    T. Dunn, editor of Zuzu's Online Literary Resource
    Martha Cinader, author and editor of the online lit site, PlanetAuthority Jenny Waite, Co-Winner of the Alt-X, trAce hypertext contest last year, hypertext author http://www.adelaide.net.au/~slick/site.html
    Pam Casto, coordinator of online writing workshops for poetry and flash fiction
    and of course Christy Sheffield Sanford -- this url is just a place to start if you want to learn more about her work: http://gnv.fdt.net/~christys/index.html

    At the same, what Anna Couey says "....Sexism hasn't been overt. But I keep finding myself circling back -- suddenly realizing that I'm doing the leg work at the organizational homefront, while a man is out generating new projects in the field on the basis of my labor...and other types of power plays," is sadly, in my experience sometimes true. But it is also our responsibility to leave situations where we find this to be the case. When it comes to the web, perhaps more so than ever before, women have no reason to be left behind.

    From: Margaret Morse
    Date: August 28, 1999

    In response to Dorothea Jones, are you familiar with the artist Rebecca Bollinger's work? Her research is near your area. I heard her give a talk comparing family web pages at Chik Tek in San Jose circa two years ago. I believe she is in residence at the Exploratorium in San Francisco now.

    I like the idea of web pages as the fat photo wallets my adolescent friends and I carried in the 1950's, mini-shrines we whipped out of our gigantic purses, seemingly personal but made for show.

    From: CK Tower
    Date: August 29, 1999

    Greetings,

    A correction on the address to Conspire: http://www.conspire.org and the special issue highlighting women writers, Ms. Ley and I co-produced: http://www.conspire.org/0208/ and the sister issue: http://www.heelstone.com/wherewewere/p-text4.htm Jennifer and I will be back again in Feb. 2000 with the 2nd annual women's issue- some talented women are already clamoring to get in.

    Besides that there are many many exciting projects in the works involving the internet literary community, where women are heading them up.

    Best Wishes
    Conspire

    From: Sheila Pinkel
    Date: August 29, 1999

    In the context of this discuss I must say that I have always been uncomfortable with the terms male and female when they are used to describe character traits. I do much better when I think of all people as having the capacity for assertive/aggressive and intuitive/subjective behavior and experiences. I also believe that men suffer as much as women in this misuse of gendering of language to describe human qualities because they are not given adequate room to identify their own subjective experiences.

    This lack of conceptual space for mens development is part of the problem today. We all have a spectrum of aggressive and subjective potential abilities. The misuse of language obfuscates rather than clarifies the realities and dilemmas confronting men and women. I would rather think about each person in terms of the extent to which both aspects of the persona have been developed.

    When I think about my own life experience, I have not thought that I was limited by being a woman. My limitations were more from a paucity of imagination or capability. I found that if I could clearly imagine what I wanted to do, I usually found a way to do it.

    That said, I also believe that women must continue to develop new narratives which will provide alternative options and goals besides those presented by the power structure. Women must continue the groundbreaking work they have been doing for the last thirty years to do research and creative works which provide understanding and empowerment and must continue to support one anther in their efforts. The web is an extraordinary vehicle for dissemination of ideas. However, unless we also implement those ideas in the physical world, we remain virtually empowered

    Finally, I agree with Brenda Laurel in being tired of seeing things explode. I applaud her efforts to generate a new narrative format and believe that we all need to work on this, both women and men.

    From: Jacalyn Lopez Garcia
    Date: August 31, 1999

    When I think in terms of my own art making as a web-based artist (who explores the complexities of cultural identity from a Mexican-American perspective) I feel determined to address issues related to gender as well as other contemporary issues that focus on race, sexuality and feminist concerns. As an artist, activist and humanitarian, I also have a strong desire to create art that can inspire a need for an open-minded society: the kind that can embrace differences. Therefore, it is never my intention to completely isolate the female experience but rather to create a space for raising consciousness with regard to developing a greater understanding of humanity.

    Presently I am an instructor at Los Angeles Mission College where I teach Visual Communication classes and it is exciting for me to report that one-third of the students enrolled in my classes are women. So I find the notion that ....gender is fading an interesting one. As much as I would like to believe this true, I cant help feeling that issues based on inequalities and injustices (with regard to women in the work place and in the art world) still needs to be addressed. And so I question...what responsibility are individuals willing to take in order to create greater opportunities for women to succeed in the field of computer-based art technologies of today's art world? In answer to my own question, I believe it is important for us to focus on examining the relationship between strengths & similarities rather than the negative aspects of differences.

    Note:

    Glass Houses exemplifies the methodologies I used to explore contemporary themes based on the fear of becoming disenfranchised from ones cultural roots. This website is further intended to examine how an artist creates reflections of the past (with the use of an autobiographical narrative and family photographs) while exploring new understandings of the present.

    From: Cynthia Rubin
    Date: September 2, 1999

    On this, the last day of this discussion, it has been of interest of me that much of the discussion has focused on questions of identity, My thoughts are from this are not that some parts of identity are more important than others (as has been suggested) but that different parts of our identities pose different problems and pleasures.

    Being a woman is clearly one of the most important aspects of my identity. But it is one that is so woven into who I am, (both because it is immediately evident to other when they meet me and because it is something that is essentially unchangeable) that in some ways it is less interesting to me. There is no borderline here. I am female.

    The other aspects of my identity are more complicated. I embrace being Jewish and American, but each of these aspects of my identity can be submerged, forgotten, or hidden. Some of us get to do this more easily than others (my features are distinctly Jewish, and my facility with accents is poor) but still these parts of my identity are only obvious to those who know. And there is a play between these identities. When I travel in Europe I am sometimes asked if I am from the Netherlands, and I assume that those who ask this know that I am Jewish (dark hair, significant Jewish population in the Netherlands) but do not think of me as American because I do not fit that stereotype.

    As an artist, I am more intrigued by these border-line identities. They offer me more of a challenge in exploration. But ironically, in the late 20th century, it is being a woman that poses more challenges in my daily life.

    From: Jenni
    Date: February 19, 2000

    I don't blame the men for the way that some of them are....It is the government... The government has made women responsible for men's irresponsibilities. A man can walk out and then the woman has to raise the kids and work while Mr. loser is out getting what he calls a life. I don't believe that going against everything that is morally right is getting a life. Until women decide to take a stand and let the Congressman of their state know that the system is not fair... Than I guess the system will stay the way it is...I am not some knot head who hasn't lived, nor am I someone who sits idly by. I am a mother with 3 children from a previous marriage (one of those soap opera divorce scenerios..my ex is with my ex-bestfriend..and they belong together!) I also have to children from another relationship, all under 8 years . I love them and would give my life for them. I work, go to school(to be an attorney) and I raise my kids. What does the ex do? Not a darn thing....

    Do I want sympathy? GOD NO! I want to make a difference in this world and I will. If you have a comment please email me at jenniwillsucceed@yahoo.com

    
    
    (Editors note: This Conference took place in 1999 and some of the web resources and email addresses may now be out of date)


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